122. Hard Stopping Your Abundance

Hey, this is Anne with your Coaching On The Go.

We’re talking about abundance and different techniques to open to it.

There are a lot of little nuances.

But I’m going to dig into them bit by bit for you, little by little.

We’re going to start with some basics.

So…what happens?

You are in this life buffet.

You are in your life movie, and all sorts of interesting things are coming by, like you are driving on a highway.

Whatever speed you are going, you’ve got things coming by you.

What do you do with the things you are interested in that you would really like to have, and that maybe at another time or maybe now you feel embarrassed to even ask because they’re big. (Yes, an emotional run-on sentence!).

What are you doing with those?

This weekend I was a business mastermind, and my coach wrote me a note.

“They’re going to offer something very elite here.”

“You get to get in there and you get to become part of that.”

When my higher-level business coach, was presenting it, I read the note again.

My coach’s goal this year is 10 million in revenue.

These are people that I position myself with on purpose because I’m expanding to a higher level than I’ve ever been in.

I can’t share these ideas with everybody because a lot of people are not open enough to even hear the idea and I’m not interested in throwing that resistance in my face.

I carefully choose who I share my big ideas with because until I’m really solid in the idea, and even if I am, I don’t want to tarnish my energy towards it with skepticism.

So I’m talking to my coach.

He gives me this note.

I read it.

It says I should step into this group.

It’s a small elite group of people amongst many, many business people going to the next level.

It’s quite a chunk of money, okay?

It is as much money as I made at the top of my game as a teacher, just to be in this group for the year.

Then I have access to all these different high-level business people.

I am creating something big, so I went up to hear.

Normally, I would have just knocked that down because I would say, “It’s too expensive” or whatever my old excuse was, “I can’t afford that.” “I don’t have that kind of money.”

Whatever the excuse would be, I would not have gone up, but I went up anyway.

She started talking about the qualifications of the people who would be a good fit for this small group.

I don’t fit the qualifications.

They say you need to be making a certain threshold of money, which

I’m not.

You need to have certain experience.

I don’t.

I listen to it all.

I respect my coach.

He’s an incredible human being who’s creating on a big level.

I went over and I said, “What are you thinking?”

“Give me some feedback and tell me.”

He shared where I am going in a very short while.

I’ll have those resources, and I’ve got to step out before they are there, which I know now.

I keep trying to share this with you.

Sometimes, you have to step out in trust before it all shows up for you.

The reason is that when you do, you are demanding a bigger life.

Because you have never experienced that bigger life, (or maybe you have created a mistrust within yourself through life experience), so it feels scary going, and you don’t have all the details.

That’s why the visualizing and things like that are so important.

So he said to me, “This is your next level.”

“You’ve got to go there.”

I filled out the form.

The lady who was taking the form said, “Well, can I charge this to your credit card?”

I said, “I don’t have a credit card that I can charge $50,000 on.”

And then she asked, “Well, what about this number?”

They shared payment options.

I said, “Well, I’m making a pitch for my business in the next two weeks.”

“I’ll pay ten this month.”

I still had to check my credit card to see if that would be covered under my limit.

So, I signed the paperwork.

There was energy flowing through my fingertips.

I felt upset in my stomach.

As I started to walk around, and people asked me if I joined, I said yes, and felt the confidence I felt when I was a little girl, when I was accelerating in the younger years of my life when I knew that I knew that I knew that I was going to accomplish or that thing, or that I was really good at this or really gifted at that.

I felt like I was where I was supposed to be.

My life keeps enticing me to another level.

What is your life enticing you to get be, do, or have?

Is is a beautiful outfit?

Is it an incredible handbag or a portfolio for your artwork that’s going to make you feel utterly professional every time you use it, and keeps propelling you forward, giving you the feeling of being a professional?

Think about how you set yourself up to feel small.

How you can set yourself up for stepping bigger?

Listen to the feedback of people you respect.

Take a good look at what is in front of your face.

For me, this high-level business group that takes a lot of resources was being put in front of my face.

I have never had it put there.

Not one person, but three different people I highly respect said, “That’s where you get to go”.

I took the coaching and I said, “Yes!”

Today I feel like I am another great step toward my pitch for the $40 million project.

I’m working on this conservation in the retreat center.

There are reasons everything is coming by you.

When you say yes to it or when you even consider it, it shifts momentum and opens possibilities.

Let’s say you want a particular car and have been embarrassed to even say you want it.

You don’t feel worthy of it, but you’re here for experiences.

If you want to drive in that beautiful car because it’s going to feel good, you deserve that.

You get to have that.

If you want some other experience. a primitive experience, because you want that, great!

You get to have that.

Abundance coaching is about satisfying your curiosity and wonderment.

The things that you are curious about, aren’t random.

They are breadcrumbs to experiences and a Vision.

When you decide to hack them off at the knees before investigating what they look like, you are selling yourself short and stopping your momentum.

Here’s your homework:

Find something that comes across your path you would love to experience.

Instead of doing what you may be typically used to doing, where you stop because “you don’t have enough”, “you don’t do this”, blah, blah, blah, blah blah.

Instead of sabotaging it, your assignment is to investigate it, dig in, test drive it, and try it on.

Watch it over time.

See what’s happening with it.

Do some research.

See how it comes to you.

Don’t cut it off if it’s something you really want.

That’s your homework for today.

I love you.

Be good to yourself.