Hey, this is Anne with your SpiritRiver Coaching on the Go.
We talked about this a couple of days ago, but I’m going to expand on it today.
You have, yes, these different aspects of your being that protect you.
And forge you forward and promote growth and everything that you need.
You have the six basic human needs: the need for certainty, the need for variety, and pity.
The need for love and connection, the need for significance, the need for growth, and the need for contribution.
Basically, everything we do fits into these.
And if you have activities that engage four or more of these.
They’re pretty much activities you’re never going to let go of.
And if you have addictions, typically at least four of these are being met in the addiction.
That’s why it’s challenging to shift it.
So as you enter into your new year of creating and your new quarterly.
The more you’ve gotten out of the skinny branches.
The more you have exposed yourself to new possibilities and removed what you know to be true.
The more uncertainty that’s there, the more you’re going to experience possibilities for derailment.
It just seems to be exponential.
I’ve experienced this regularly in the coaching communities that I’m in.
People find this to be a phenomenon that shows up almost.
The bigger your shift is going to be.
The bigger the project sometimes the bigger the possibility for things that come up.
So what does it look like?
You go start embarking.
Let’s say you leave a position and you’re letting go of a certain amount of financial flow there.
And it may happen that a number of things go in that same direction where they’re not available.
It may seem like all of a sudden a number of your financial resources either get smaller or start to dwindle.
And it makes you question if you’ve made the right decision.
But you can go back in and you can rediscover all the reasons.
Why did you make the decision you did and stand strong and continue to move forward?
Often when you make a new decision.
Things will show up that still offer what you used to do and you get to choose.
Do you want to stay where you were or would you like to go forward?
Are you interested in running for comfort?
Are you continuing to focus forward?
That’s why having goals, quarterly goals, and having a year plan.
Having a vision is so important and having the reasons why that vision is important to you.
What’s it going to bring to you?
So you can stay in the forward motion.
You can stay in the feeling of where you’re going, what you’re going to do.
The ways of being that are going to get you there, versus becoming scared.
And reverting to where you have been.
Because back to where you were is where you had the contrast to ask for.
The more that’s on your goal in your quarterly goals or your vision.
So today’s coaching is really around being able to stay in that interim period.
When you’ve stepped away from the ways of being.
And the reality of what you already had created that you decided wasn’t enough for you.
But before you’ve stepped into your next incarnation.
Where you are fully experiencing in your reality the things that you want to create.
So what do you do in the middle?
You play in your future and you feel it in your body.
When you play in the future like that you imagine it completely.
It supports you in feeling the way that you get to feel in the ways of being and being.
Conducting yourself in a way that is resourceful, and creative.
And already being in the way is of being that you would be if that had been already accomplished.
Does that make sense to you?
Okay, I’m going to leave it right there until next time.
We’ll pick it up at this point during the next coaching on the go.