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409 Where Are You Headed?

Mar 21, 2024 | Uncategorized

This is Anne with your Coaching On The Go.

I like to say that you can’t make any mistakes in this life, because as you go and make movement or don’t you, give yourself the time you need to learn, get frustrated, or decide that you’re ready to take some risk.

That time is important.

It helps you to make decisions.

This week I’ve been sharing with you a variety of diagrams about fear about how much time you’re spending thinking about things that you don’t want versus things that you do.

When you are creating a business, there are certain things that you are going to be facing.

Fear is something that you’re gonna be facing nearly every day.

You do not have somebody else creating an income for you.

It is you who is creating.

Some people cannot handle that.

Other people crave freedom so much, they crave autonomy so much, that it calls them to step through the fear.

The things that are grounded in fear like procrastination, calendar clutter, not knowing what to do next, staying in the same place because it’s familiar, and being afraid of being uncomfortable, are taking you to an opportunity for learning and growing that you seem to be needing.

That’s why they’re presented to you.

The purpose of this week’s and last week’s coaching is twofold.

One is to get you to think about how much time you are spending working against yourself.

Remember you are doing that with the creative collaborative field.

As you’re working against yourself, you are creating more and more of what you don’t want or are scared of.

You are actively tuned up to what is not working.

Your reticular Reticular Activation System is looking to match what you’re thinking and feeling on the inside, and what you’re talking about, with what you’re experiencing on the outside.

You have a lot of control over what you’re experiencing.

I want you to see that through the work we’ve been doing in the last two weeks.

The second thing I want you to notice is those excuses, those mechanisms that are pointing you away from the target are wasting your energy.

They are taking the energy away from the energy you could have on the target.

And again, that’s OK if that’s what you want.

But in each of those fears, distractions, or excuses, there is information waiting for you to discover.

Once you discover that you can shift it.

In my world, I love to believe that whatever is wanting to, I’m gonna say, trip me up, is there to create the learning for me that I need to get to my next level.

Take a look over what you’ve created in the last two weeks as you’ve been jotting down information about what is taking you from your focus on your vision.

Let’s get to work on those things.

Have a beautiful day.