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45 Expansion Pains?

May 22, 2023 | Uncategorized

Hey, this is Anne with your Coaching on the Go. Today I’m talking about people who are expanding. If you’re someone who is expanding or you’re wanting to expand, I just want to prepare you for what you’re going to experience that’s not pleasant. You, at some point, are going to experience discomfort from leaving a part of your life, the size that you are, which you’ve become comfortable with and you’ve mastered on some level. You’re going to be leaving that safe zone, that comfortable zone, and you are going to have to take some sort of a leap of faith, or you’re going to get to understand that being uncomfortable for a while is part of the transition of expansion.

So, it happens to me. It happened to me the other day. It happens to me regularly as I’m expanding to my next level. I want to prepare you so you don’t quit. I just want to prepare those of you who are courageous enough to be expanding yourselves. You’re going to feel a wide variety of emotions as you expand. Sometimes it’ll feel great and liberating and new and fresh, and sometimes, because there’s something you don’t understand about it, you’re being asked to open to new understandings and ways of being, you’re going to hit some bumps, and a lot of people quit at this point.

They think there’s something wrong with their process, or maybe they’re in the wrong spot, or they wonder if they can sustain it if they do it. I have those same feelings, still. Part of me still asks me those questions, and it’s my vision for where I’m going, in that rich imagining and sensing and feeling that I’ve already done it, which I do when I get the ideas, and I sink into where I’m going and how beautiful that feels. That vision carries me through these uncomfortable moments. Because when I take my foot off the pedal and if I decide to quit, and recently I decided I was going to not do something that I thought I was going to do, and initially it felt comfortable, I felt some sense of relief.

But then after that wore off, the part of me that wanted to expand felt the pressure release and felt disappointed. I dis-appointed, I un-appointed myself in charge of that situation, and part of my being recognized that and it was a let down. I gathered some more information, I talked to a variety of people who had experienced some of the things that I was going to be pursuing and asked them how they felt and how they pursued it, and I got my excitement back and I reengaged.

So I’m just here today to talk to you about the variety of feelings that you’re going to feel if you’re courageous enough to step into walking towards your vision and creating. I just want to prepare you so you don’t stop early and sink back into where you’ve already been, the familiar place you’ve been, and deny yourself the excitement and satisfaction of creating your own expansion, your own dreaming, your own manifesting. If this is hitting home for you today, I’m here to help you. Throw something in the reply to an email and just tell me if this coaching has supported you, and watch out for some things that I’m sending out, ways that you can connect with me for some coaching calls. Have a beautiful, beautiful day.